NITELITE - AUGUST 2000

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  August 31
 
@They started (again) at 12:30...because Lil D is such a "slow" according to Monica...and she can't do anything, she should put up with him..he's the boss...hah!
@Cooking was around....pero lowbatt.
@Before thay started, they talked about netiquette.
1. Ask the person first beforesending him/her a large file.
2. Send it only once.
@Wise Guy theme was played...
@And Lil D greeted the mailing list again..Thank You!
@Battlestar Galactica was played...
(Somebody is pissing off Monica on the phone so she can't get a caller)

Finally, Caller #1 - Ridge - He wanted to talk about him being suspended in school because of a question he refused to answer. Professor asked "How many stars are there in the sky?", he answered none...because he thinks the question is wrong. A case was filed now against him for insubordination.
Lil D: But you really do know what he meant, you just wanted to be difficult. What did you get from all that trouble? None, right! It's not worth it. Looking back, after some years, you'll gonna laugh about this. There's a lot of things you can stand up to other than this.
Monica: In the long run, when you'll gonna graduate..they will see your record and they'll gonna think twice before accepting you on a job. This is shallow. Give your teacher an apology for causing such trouble.

@Charmed theme was played....

Caller#2 - Marie - She's wondering if she's got standards too high. She's got a long list and she thinks she should lower it a bit to find the right guy already coz she's about 28 and her parents are bugging her too.
Lil D: You shouldn't go below your standards. It's condescending to the other person. Broaden your horizons. Believe me, when you meet the right person, all your standards will go out of the window. It's your biological clock that's bothering you and your parents pressuring you...don't be. You might end up with a guy you don't actually like.
Monica: There's something innate within you that you want in a guy esp. values and principles. What you have to let go are the petty stuff. And if you think you're old at 28..I'm gonna kill you!
Marie: Why, how old are you Monica?
Monica: Actually, I'm 26..but...
Blade: Gwaaark!...Had to clear my throat there..
Monica: Very funny..!!
Marie: You must be choosy too.
Monica: Actually, I'm not!
Blade: Nya..haha..haha...! Hearty chuckle..hahaha
Lil D: She has great taste...you are too choosy..!
Monica: No, I'm not. Since I'm not going out with Ron South..well, that makes me a little choosy.
Blade: She still has some standard folks. Anybody but Ron South.
Marie: He asked you out?
Monica: Not really...
Blade: If he did, she probably couldn't understand him...(imitates Ron South)
Lil D: Yeah..he'd ask a tree if it wore a skirt though..!
Marie: Maybe I should meet him.
Monica: NO! (immediate response)
Blade: Not even a second to pause to think..automatic No!
Marie: Okay, I'll take your word for it.
Monica: I love Ronnie but I will never set him up or encourage anyone to date him.
Lil D: But then again, don't close your doors. If you get to meet him, walk in with your eyes open and standards out the window.
Blade: Bring a stungun(?), mace or a knife!
Lil D: Keep a tight hold on your bag...

@ A theme was played...forgot the title..

Caller#3 - Sydney - Talked about shifting careers. She wants a more intellectually stimulating job. She wants to be a teacher.
Lil D: You have to consider the consequences of your action as to how it would affect your family but not meaning to say don't do it . Do what you want but don't be selfish. look for a job that makes you happy and fulfilled.
Monica: It's so sad when your working in a place you hate coz you are there more than half of your waking hours in the workplace. It's important to look for a job you love. If you're staying for the wrong reasons then that's sad, only if you have no choice.
Blade: Wala kang no choice. If you have any opportunity to get out of a job that doesn't make you happy, you should do it. But never leave first before looking for a job.

@Perfect Strangers Theme was played...

Caller#4 - Angie - Her brother never liked any of her boyfriends. They never got to talk so she doesn't know why.
Blade: Maybe that's his way to protect you. Why don't you try to re-open a line of communication and reassure him about your relationship.
Lil D: It could be because he's a guy and he knows what guys think. I think it's just lack of communication. Usually, a lot of problems can be corrected by just talking about it.

@Roswell Theme was played...

Caller#5 - Piper - She's got a boyfriend she met on the net and they've been together for about a year now. She feels she's not happy eventhough he showers him with expensive gifts. She had a date with another guy whom she thinks she's more compatible with.
Lil D: If you're wiling to meet halfway, you can survive. Puwedeng ayusin yun if you're both willing to work at it.
Blade: A lot of people in a relationship aren't necessarily 2 individuals with the same likes and dislikes. They usually find a common ground.

@Growing Pains theme was played...

Q & A
@ Since The Blade started writing movie reviews in the mailing list, why don't you Monica write articles regarding tv updates and Lil D have a techfreak article?
Lil D: Magkano talent Fee? I do read so you just keep writing and I keep reading. We'll try but don't expect.
Monica: Kayo ha! I'd love to but I have no time. It's either you or the Tv...TV wins..I'll try to post messages this time..once in a while..(Hmp..promise?) (I stopped writing here {silly me}..I got carried away...just listened...sorry)
@ Which Charmed One do you like?
Monica: I watch it every week for Piper. If I were a lesbian I'd go all the way to the states for her.
Lil D and Blade: Piper too!

@ Is there any Marvel superhero you wanna put into a movie?
Blade: Captain America; Iron Man
Lil D: Iron Man

@ If you could look like any of your favorite celebrity, who would it be?
Monica: I already do!
Lil D: Chichay..Si Chichay!!
Monica: I'm not gonna say...if you see me you would know.
Lil D: Si Manoling..
Monica: Okay...I would love to look like either Jennifer Aniston or Gwyneth Paltrow.
Blade: Ako ayoko ng magsalita...di na kailangan eh.
Monica: Actually, he looks like Jimmy Ray
Blade: I WAS talking about Keanu..
Lil D: Ewan ko sa kin..
Blade: Ako magsasabi..Anthony Edwards..or Patrick Stewart
Lil D: Brendan Fraser I guess...
Monica: That entails a lot of time in the gym...

@ Have you seen Down To You?
Blade: Mababaw

@The New K-lite Love Team....Blade and Mylinda...they went out on a date.

@If you got one sky is the limit wish, what would it be?
Blade: Healthy Life
Monica: Me too...good health
Lil D: Sky is the limit wishes!

@ Do you think the government is to be recommended for the release of the AbuSayyaf victims?
Monica: It's all for show. Not!
Blade: Boink!
Lil D: They're not!

@ Teacher Brenda made her students listen today and tomorrow they're gonna pass a reaction paper.

@ Have you ever been restless and empty on your work? If so, what do you do?
Lil D: Everyone gets restless in a job.
Monica: You feel empty even if you love your job sometimes. Take a vacation every so often. I actually count my blessings when I feel that way sometimes.
Blade: Just take some time off. If you keep workin' your butt off you'll burn yourself out.

@ Favorite Sport.
Lil D: To watch or to do? Tennis---but I haven't been playing lately.
Monica: bowling and swimming
Blade: Kickboxing and Aikido..(hmmm...o shige na Blade, ++pogi points ka na)

@ Right/Left Handed
All Right....(Vince is ambidextrous._

@ What's your favorite Zagu flavor?
Monica: Melon, Pandan
Blade: Chocolate, Cookies and Cream, Melon, Pandan...in that order
Lil D: Pearl milk Tea..(pangmatanda daw says Monica)

@ Describe each other physically
We're not gonna...

@ Goodbye song was the 'I knew I loved you' version of Monica.... 		 

  August 24
 
@ They started at 12:30 am
@ Elming as around

Caller#1 - Jess - He has a girlfriend employed in the school his studying in. She's older than he is. She's a guidance councilor and one time, a guy asked for her advice and eventually courted her. He's jealous of this guy and he always sees them together, it pissess her off when he gets jealous. They broke up yesterday coz she thinks he's kinda too good to be true and she needs space and time to think thigs over.( This is the guy who slipped and said s$%&..on air ( tagalog version)
Lil D: She seems not too serious towards you. You should step back a little and examine if it's worth it. You should use your head a little more.
Monica: If she starts saying about space..she really wants out. For a 3 month relationship, you have already put intoo much.
Blade: It gives me the impression that she really is not serious. Re-examine your feelings.

@7th Heaven Theme was played...

Caller#2 - Miaka - She called about the store she's putting up with her friends. (not yet operational - FREE advertisement) They will be printing their own magazine and first 100 will be given free copies. Just text your name/address/landline phone to a phone number. Their place is located in front of Metropolitan Hospital. They also need 3 more help in the store with a minimum wage.

@Time Of Your Life Theme was played.........

Caller#3 - Tina (our moderator) - She was harrassed at a National Bookstore branch and as accussed of stealing (Sheesh!) (We'll definitely talk about it here at the mailing list so I need not write.)

Wasteland Theme was played...

Caller#4 - Sydney - Does falling for a lesbian makes you one? She's confused.
Lil D: If it's just a close relationship, it dosn't make you a lesbian. Unless it's a romantic thing, you have nothing to worry.
Monica: As long as it's not a sexual, physical attraction.

Caller#5 - Joey - Somebody is courting her. He sometimes gives too much attention to her but he's got a girlfriend and he doesn't wanna break up with her. He also says she might be a lesbian that's why she's not liking him.
Lil D: His feeling is not that strong for you coz he doesnt wanna break up with his girlfriend. Back out and do nothing until he's free.
Blade: Attention is flattering but he sounds like he's just into one thing. Don't get carried away.
Monica: Just savor the fact that somebody is stalking you but that doesn't mean you have to fall for him.

Theme from Spin City was played...

Q & A (with Elmo Version)

@ If you're attracted to a gay person, does that make you one too?
Monica: Yes. It doesn't matter if you don't do anything coz you're still attracted. Doing something about it is just like stealing the deal.
Blade: Yes..or maybe you have the tendency.
Lil D: This is an honest, intellectual dilemma. I don't wanna answer.
@From the listeners...
@Being gay is an orientation not an action.
@Psychologically,evryone is capable of being attracted to ame sex.
@If I'm gay and I have some straight thoughts, that doesn't make me straight unless I have it all the time.

@ Keanu will start shooting Matrix 2 in Australia on December. (And Blade says..hey! Don't announce my itinerary on air..Gwaaarck!)

@ If you are given the chance to change ur name what would it be?
Blade: I'm ok with my name.
Monica: Samantha Isabelle (to blade..you are Joey)
For Lil D - Monica says...Felipe, Moses, Abraham, Boyet
Blade says....Andrew, Rolly,and...Bruno wins..

@ Where can we find Shape of MY Heart by Sting?
Fields of Gold

@ How many Cd's do you have?
Lil D: Blade has 15 million thousand

@ Robert Downey will guest at Ally

@ When are your birthdays?
Blade: September 22
Lil D: February 15
Monica: November 22

@ Describe Mylinda
Lil D: Imagine Rebecca...ripped up
Blade: Dr. Evil
Monica: She's got the best tube top ever...Best set of hair too.

@ If you were to be an object, what would you be and who would own you?
Monica: I answered this before at Talkback...can't remember
Blade: Can't say it on air..
Lil D: Jennifer Lopez's bicycle seat...

@ Goodbye song was normal...with Elmo..Monica was lazy to think of a version.

@ And they said Thank You from the bottom of their hearts for those who listened till the end. 		 

  August 17 (The Sesame Street Night)
 
Monica on her sermon mood (at least not fuming mad)
Blade on his kilig mood..(uuy, aminin mo na Blade)
Lil D on his usual..smart mood

Caller#1 - Joe - He wants to talk about courtship. He's courting a girl in a "pahapyaw way". He also wanted to talk about time management coz their schedule is kinda not matched. And also wanted to know if a girl is more meticulous if he's gonna be her first boyfriend.
Lil D: Wait till the sem is over then figure out a way to be constantly in touch with her without the conflict in schedule. You'd have to be a little more patient coz studies is still a priority. You wait a lillte while.
Blade: One of the best things you can do is make the most out of the time you spend with her kahit na madalang lang. I wish you all the best.
Monica: (on the 3rd question) Depends on the girl. I think that the younger a girl is, the more unmeticulous she is and if she's around 22 - 23, she knows what she wants already. I guess whatever the case may be, ingatan mo siya. Tita Guia (Monica's Tita) says that whatever relationship you get in to, you better be careful of that persons heart coz no matter how it turned out, the effect on that person will gonna stay with that person for life.

Take a Breath was played...(an Elmo song)

Caller#2 - Gilbert - He's kinda hard up looking for a job so he applied at a gaybar. He's a bit afraid though na maiuwi ng bading"..aside from that, he's kinda in to it too.
Lil D: You don't sound so desperate. You're prostituting yourself. You have to think things through. Just keep searching for a job.
Monica: You leave it up to faith but not this. That's gonna be exploitation of your whole being. It's difficult for people who have a little faith. Ipagdasal mo and God would give you a job not in this way. Start from some place small.
Blade: You gotta think if you're willing to give up your dignity then go ahead but this might turn out to be something you'll gonna regret.

Sunny Day was played...(er..is this the right title?)

Caller#3 - Colette - She has a problem with his boyfriend who's coming on to her other friend. He's her first boyfriend and she thinks she can't let him go that easy.
Lil D: If you find out things like this...alamin mo talaga what's happening. And if it's not to your liking, then it's not worth having a heartache over. Find it all now than later.
Blade: If your source is reliable then go confront him. Trust is very important in a relationship and if he breaks it. he's gotta go.
Monica: (She just gave a mini wave for Colette)

@C is for Cookie was played...

Caller#4 - Hio - (Spelled it wrong I know) - He's got this friend, a bestfriend actually for a long time and he only knew a week ago that he was gay and he made a pass on him. He's homophobic and he's thinking if he should continue being friends with him.
Lil D: These things take a lot of time before it normalize. He should understand and respect you if you want to stay away for now. This may also be God's way of telling you to rethink your position about gays.
Blade: Not only did he lie to you but he also tried smething to you. Maybe you should talk to him and tell him how you feel so he knows why you need to stay away from him for a while.
Monica: This is where man and woman are different. I would feel offended, I'd get a little scared but my love for her after all those years of friendship would not make me stop being friends with her. I think I would take a break but eventually I still couldn't live without her.

Mana Mana song was played...

Q & A
@Top 3 Male and Female Concert Performers
Monica: Gary V, Martin, Ricky Martin, Madonna, Phil Collins, Lea (a little dry but she's got amazing voice.)
Blade: Gary V, Martin, Regine (syempre) Phil Collins
Lil D: Same here...Janet is good too

@What is the url where you can do text messaging?
www.quios.com

@Who do you think is the next Madonna, Britney or Cristina?
Monica: There's no comparison.
Blade: I don't think there's gonna be another Madonna.

@ Most unforgettable Highschool experience
Blade: I was pretending to skate and I slammed my head on the door.
Monica: A lot..

@ If there's one song that's gonna be played on your wedding day, what would it be?
Monica: Hard to answer coz we don't know yet who we are gonna marry.
Blade: Something that only me and my wife knows, definitely.
@ What can u say about one another?
Lil D: Mind blowing question.
Monica: We actually hate each other.
Blade: Off the air, we don't talk. "If you don't have anything good to say about someone, don't say anything at all."

@Who do you think epitomizes the real man and real woman and why?
Blade: Princess Di
Lil D: Harrison Ford (He's a man's man.)

@Who is your favorite x-men?
Blade and Lil D: Wolverine
Monica: not familiar with all the x-men

@What do you like most face, body or porma?
Lil D: Porma I can do without. Face I guess.
Blade: Face would be top of the list. All three if I had a way.
Monica: Porma...even if you don't have a good face or a body, if you know how to carry yourself, i'd like you.

@ What's your ideal man/woman?
Blade: Beautiful, sexy, very down to earth, funny, intelligent, somebody who doesn't smoke, good dresser, good speaking voice (in short, android daw sabi ni Monica.)
Lil D: ditto
Monica: I don't like someone who's school smart. Intelligence of Bill Clinton, humor of David Letterman, Body of Mel Gibson, Voice of Don Philip, Height of Keanu, Face of Jude Law...who's honest and who doesn't lie. (freak daw sabi ni Blade.)

@ Lil D..you look kind, simple, responsible not a womanizer. Are you married or attached to someone else?
Lil D: no comment
Monica: Let me just say you don't know a person till you know a person.

@ Have you ever been turned down by the opposite sex?
Lil D: Lahat naman tayo eh...si Blade lang ang..sanay.
Blade: I get rejected more often..It hurts!

@ What is the worst thing you did for love?
Blade: I'd rather not say.
Monica: Me too. Let's just say, we've been fools before.
Lil D: Fools for love.

@What are some of your favorite love songs?
Monica: The real mushy ones. Look what love has done/Before my heart finds out/and of course...you make me love you more.,,haha
Blade: Born to love you/Look what love has done/Let's give a little more this time
Lil D: Don't have any..

@ The goodbye song is dedicated to Ellen (Blade's friend(?)) who's celebrating her birthday.
Here's the version...
May Ellen's tomorrow be a perfect birthday
May you find love (..in a seductive way) and kisses along the way
May God and The Blade keep you in their tender care
Till you get back together and watch a movie again (a Mini Wave for Monica there...talented ka talaga.) 		 

  August 10
 
@Monica was busy getting pissed (she's fuming mad guys, be afraid, be very afraid)
@Lil D greeted the litemail group (..thanks Lil D...you're so toppul..!)

Caller # 1 - St. Mark - He's confused. He had gotten intimate with her girlfriend before and they've agreed not to go to that level again. They went out last Tuesday and saw a movie and he thought she was leading him on so he got carried away. Before the end of the movie she said he's too carried away again. So he's confused if he took the wrong message or she's just running around in circles again.
Lil D: Usually, that's the case. We misread the signs. But then again, the answer's with you. Just ask her. Don't make it a big deal. And it's a case to case basis too. Only you two could answer your confusion.
Blade: Maybe it wasn't her intention to turn you on. Maybe she just wanted to really rest her head and just that. Go talk to her.

@ A little Trivia from Monica : 1900, the average age people will gonna die is 46 for women and 45 for men, after a century, the average age became 76 for women and 74 for men.
@Perfect Strangers Theme was played...

Caller#2 - Mac - He's asking if he is obligated to give money to his folks coz he is at this point and they've got this standard money to give to every payday, about 3/4's of his salary.
Blade: Personally, I think it's not an obligation but then again, it's never easy to turn down your folks not unless they're being a little abusive already. In some ways it's kinda fair 'coz maybe they just want you to be responsible. Grin and bear it 'coz you still live under their roof.
Monica: If you're living with them, it's different. I know the importance of giving but i don't wanna be obligated. You don't have a choice 'coz you live there. But when you move out. You'd have to share na lang.
Lil D: Maybe it should become a motivation for you to waork harder and earn more money so you can eventually move out and be responsible to your own life.

StarWars Theme was played (exception..played as a tribute to the late Obiwankenobi)

Caller#3 - Irene - She has the yes-disease. She wants to know the art of saying no without feeling guilty. One of her friends felt bad and is not talking to her anymore coz she promised to lend him money but she never got to give it on time which she did explain though before she agreed to lend him money. She could just have said no but she feels guilty to say so and now she's the one on the bad side.
Lil D: From his point of view, he really would feel bad. Well, practice saying no so you won't feel bad afterwards. Pratice makes perfect.
Monica: You think you're doing them a favor by keeping them hanging but you're actually offending them by not meaning to offend them. It's an irony. Disease to please actually stems from insecurity coz you want everyone to like you but in the long run, many people will end up disliking you. Don't feel guilty and obliged to give a reason.
Blade: There's no rule book that helps you not to feel guilty when saying no. Don't give a litany of excuses. They should just learn to respect you when you say no.

@Theme from the Golden Girls was played..(It's Monica's show daw says Lil D...hehe)

Caller#4 - James Bond (daw)..(He slipped though, we got his real name..harhar.J.R.) - He was hit in the nose by a co-player during a ball hussle. The guy didn't apologize and he got pissed so he wrote a letter to the school board and things got even more complicated. They think it's too shallow to focus on and it's making him even angrier. He's planning to let him pay for the damages to give him a lesson. (He's fuming mad too folks)
Lil D: Hinarap mo na sana kaagad para hindi na humaba ang kuwento. Sit down wih him and settle it. Fair and just way. Then leave it at that.
Monica: Don't prolong the issue. Ask for an apology and end it there. Settle it amongst yourselves.
Blade: Talk to him. Do it in front of someone who's neutral. The more people getting involved, the more it becomes complicated.

A theme was played here...didn't catch the title..

Caller#5 - Imelda - Her friend has a new boyfriend who never pays when they go out. He even brings along his friends and eventually, her friend pays for all of them. Even when only the both of them goes out, her friend still pays. He says he's got no money. Her friend complains to her.
Lil D: Nasa sa kanila na yun. Tell your friend to look for a better guy na lang.

Q & A

@ Favorite Commercial - They've answered this before.

@ How does the Blade look like?

They mentioned a lot...

@ How Soon Is Now, the Charmed Theme is in the soundtrack of The Craft and Wedding Singer too.

@ What do you think of Joshua Jackson?
Monica: Think he's cool.

@ Lannie Chan is the latest convert of Half Life..Mylinda too plays it already so Monica says...TRAITOR! (Lannie's possessed when she plays Half life)

@ What was the last website you visited?
Monica: Fan site of the cute guy from never been kissed (Michael Vartan) he also played the son of Richard Burke in FRIENDS.
Blade and Lil D: Amazon.com

@ What do you think of Madonna's latest single?
Monica: It's okay. The Video sucks.
Blade: Haven't seen it.
Lil D: It's okay.

@ The movie Wilde..movie where Jude Law is wickedly sexy.

@ Is there any song that makes you cry?
Lil D and Blade: Any song that Monica sings.
MonicaWhen it first came out and because of the moment...Candle In The Wind used to make me cry.

@ Who is the better writer Nick Joaquin or Bienvenido Santos?
Lil D: Nick Joaquin is a little more adventurous and experimental.

@ Mame your most favorite philosophical film..
Monica: Toy Story/For the Love of Benjie...
Blade: The Matrix
Lil D: Wisdom of Crocodile...(of course they're kidding)

@ Best book you've read so far
Lil D: The Bible..
Monica: Never read it from cover to cover yet..
Blade: I have but that was a long time ago...(Monica was so amazed) seriously...
Lil D: Book of the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance (I know I got some words incorrect there..)
Monica: Heartburn
Blade: Bridges of Madison County (They know Vikkicar's favorite book...Brief Encounters..Uhm..Porn ha..jk)

@ Would the Blade know if Color me Badd has disbanded already?
Blade: Why are you askin' me?
Lil D: Bacause you like boy bands..hehe
Monica: Duh! Duda na ako sa yo eh..bading..but they're not..they're just not making waves anymore.

@Monica's goodbye song..the songstress killer version...everybody cringed...including Irene3..haha...talented talaga si Miss Monica...grabe..! 		 

  August 03
 
@ Started with Monica looking at her button-fly jeans. She's amazed to discover that anybody can actually see in between the buttons....Blade says, "Don't worry Monica, I won't peak, I don't wanna have nightmares for the rest of my life!"...Lil D says, "Don't, you might discover Monica is really a guy, Pareng Monica"...which Monica says, ...Shut Up!
@He-Man Theme was played before the first caller...

Caller#1 - Marianne -(giggling girl) She's 28 (and she thinks she's old) and she'd been married for four years now with a child. She got separated (not legally though) with her husband a year ago and now she has a boyfriend. Her husband cheated on her for about four times during the marriage so she got fed up. Her husband is trying to win her back now and she's (actually) thinking of a reconciliation for the sake of their child although she doesn't love him anymore and she is already in love with her current boyfriend. BTW, their separation is quite formal (daw) coz they wrote it in a piece of paper and both of them signed at the bottom.(hah)
Lil D: Medyo light ang tema but this is serious. Consider your prioprities. Tingnan mo kung puwede mo pang ayusin ang marriage. You got through the legal process. Think it over for the good of all concerned esp. for the good of your child.
Monica: File a legal separation. That's something you have to go through whether you like it or not. Just in case katokin yun, he can file a bigamy case against you too. You may be a very happy, happy person right now but this is serious. Think things over.
Blade: Who's the judge? Judge Dredd? Mag-usap kayo ng asawa ninyo..(hehe...wrong grammar si Blade, huli ka..hehe) ..mo pala. Before you start falling in love even more with your current boyfriend, you have to fix your marriage first if there's still any hope.

Theme of POPULAR was played.

Caller#2 - Mel - A previous caller about 2 months ago. She had a bestfriend who fell in love with her. She talked to him again and he told her she had no right to hurt him like that and that she wasn't actually his friend at all. He told her to get lost and go find a new friend coz she hurt him really well and that he will never overcome the hurt that she gave him. She's wondering why he bacame so narrow minded. It's been six months and he isn't over it yet.
Lil D: Give it a little more time or maybe you can take his advice to meet some other people. Maybe after afew more months, you'd change your mind too about trying to win him over or whatever. Be patient coz you did dump him. Time will tell.
Monica: Kahit naman ikaw, if you were dumped, you get a little humiliated and you need a little more time to heal. You can't dictate on people as to how they are suppose to feel. People heal not in the same time table.
Blade: You can't expect/force anyone to forget. People heal in different ways. Sometimes it takes longer or quicker but apparently your friend might be taking it abit longer than the others. All you need is a little distance from him. Let the healing process take its natural course.

Theme from ALF was played...

Caller#3 - Rico - He is HIV positive. He's got symptoms like oral Thrush (singaw) and red spots all over his body for a bout a year now. He haven't gone to the doctor yet and he's afraid to tell his parents.
Lil D: Don't get ahead of yourself. You might be scared over nothing. Being suspicious of something is not the same as actually having a proof that you have it. I know You are scared but you can have all the symptoms but it maybe a whole different disease you're having.
Monica: Go have a test. Better you know now then be cured for it as early as possible. We'll pray for you.
Blade: First and foremost you have to find out if you really do have something to worry about. Get proof. Go to the doctor.

Theme from THUNDERCATS was played here..

Caller#4 - Albert - Update - Called about Tantric Sex(?) before. Gradual Arousal thing. He's also asking how intimate should he get with his girlfriend. He's 17 years old.
Lil D: Morally speaking, it's not what the Bible says. You're a typical teenage guy, thinks of sex too much.
Monica: At the risk of being self righteous, we always say, ideally, you should not have sex. About tantric sex, two people who are very much in love will learn the moves of each other and you don't need a handbook for that.
Blade: (Just smiling) (He did the Clinton voice again..."Deny, Deny".."I did not have...")

@ Lots of Ron South bashing again and to the girls who think they're doing Ron South a favor by making sumbong, Monica says....Magsumbong kayo...ala sige...For all you know, you're only one of his fmale subjects. And FYI, they tell it to his face too not only when he's not around. (Hah)

BONANZA Theme was played...(For Ron South coz he thinks that every K-lite affair is a Bonanza. He can score with babes..and he has yet to score...but he's hoping.

Caller#5 - Rojanna - Wanted to talk about her long distance affair with he boyfriend. Eventually they broke up coz he thinks that she left him after three years of being together. She found out too that he's going out with someone in Davao who he kinda courts already.
Lil D: You did the right thing of breaking up with him. You're better off alone right now.
Monica: We understand that in your little world that's actually a big problem already, but you gotta believe us that that's just a small slice of what you'll gona go through in your life ahead. Your shool days are gonna be memorable some day so enjoy school first. Friends na lang muna kayo. Meet other guys but stay away from Ronnie...and I'm serious when I say that.
Blade: Concentrate on your studies. You have a whole lot of time for that later on... make the most out of your school days.

Theme from X-MEN was played....

Q & A
@ Is there such thing as the right person?
Monica: tough question, wouldn't wanna answer.
Lil D: Yes. There is right..and there is left too.

@ Have you seen the Charlie's Angels teaser trailer?
Monica: Yes, we have. It looks interesting. I'm a little disappointed coz they had no guns...what's an angel without a gun?
Blade: Yes I have. Kinda makes me laugh...the way they split in the air...

@When someone says "Penny for your thoughts" what do they mean?
Monica: Tell the person my thoughts if I want to
Blade: Empty mind...empty mind
Lil D: 45c

@ Blade is gathering lots of anime themes and he's trying to edit all of them...there will be an all anime episode soon...

@What's the wackiest/most unforgettable thing you've done because you're too drunk? "Night of The Crow"
Monica: I passed out cold. I woke up and my friends had already carried me to the car and there was a cup of coffee in front of my nose and my stockings were all broken (yes folks...she wore glass stockings..hehe)...torn! I got scratches on my knees too (coz of the glass stockings?) That and the night of the crow. I couldn't go home, I couldn't work, I felt like I was gonna die.
Blade: Night Of The Crow. I gave the round thing a hug. I slept on the floor without a shirt on. (Shirt was drenched with his own...vomitus I guess...Yuck) One of the most fun nite I ever had.
@DJ from Citylite went home and woke up with the trash can beside his bed, the aircon on fan and couldn't go to work. He woke up too without any recollection whatsoever why the trash was beside his bed.
@Monica used Ron South's face as a floor mat.
@DJ Unplugged used a whole chair as an eye mask (His head was underneath the chair.

@To Monica...Are you planning to have kids? What's the latest age you'll have them? Within or Outside marriege? How do you tell your relatives and friends to stop pressuring you to get married?
Monica: My parents don't pressure me. My friends don't either. As I always say, I'll start getting pressured maybe when I'm 36 and still single but at this point, I'm still enjoying my life. All I can say is, no matter how much you are enjoying your single life, it still gets to you when people keeps on bugging you about it. Just try to ignore them. A listener once, so tactlessly, told me, "Monica, when are you getting married? malapit ka nang mawala sa kalendaryo. I answered him.." Don't you think that is none of your business? And if there's someone who should be worrying about that it should be my mom and since she's not worrying about it and I'm not, you shouldn't."..Something like that...so there.

@Best Advertisement you've seen whether foreign or local.
Monica: Funniest at the moment is the Sprite Commercial (burping guy). Mastercard which features generation to generation thing...AT&T makes good commercials too esp. the one with the dog.
Blade: Talk ka ng Talk!! (with all the loudness and overreacting tune..it's so funny how he says this.)
Lil D: Bud's Wassupp!!...he can't think of any..

@What is that #1 thing that automatically turns you off about the opposite sex?
Blade: Smokers, minus 10,000 points. Probably a girl who curses a lot too.
Monica: Dishonesty and Body Odor.
Lil D: Smoking too. Yuckiest thing.

@and more playstation, anime and pc games questions which I didn't get to write...intentionally!

@ The goodbye song with Oh baby baby in between version of Monica. (Blade and Lil D says that poking the eyes with a pencil is nothing compared with the hurt you'd feel hearing and seeing Monica do the goodbye song...(Gees! That bad huh!)
There it goes...nothing follows. Till next time folks! 		 

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